OKLAHOMA CITY - An affidavit is providing new details regarding the sexual allegations against an Oklahoma City attorney and a bail bondsman from Ada.The men are accused of traveling to Iquitos, Peru to have sex with underage girls.According to Pew Research Center, as of 2007, only 38% of adult Americans believed premarital sex was wrong, a number that’s likely only gotten smaller in recent years.(FWIW, studies suggest that there’s good reason to get it on as soon as possible if you want to cash in on awesome honeymoon-phase sex.)Like we said, there’s no “right” time; deciding when you’re ready to have sex with someone is really a different-strokes-for-different-folks kind of thing.But what leads couples to hit the sheets at any given moment in their relationship? To get a better idea, we asked women in long-term relationships to divulge how quickly they had sex with their significant others.Stephanie, 25, Brooklyn Relationship length: 1 year, 3 months Waited: Three dates"I knew I liked/trusted him from the moment we met.I don't think it really had that big of an impact on the relationship that we formed or where it is now.I think in college relationships, having sex sooner than later is more common just because of the hookup culture that exists."Shannon, 21, London Relationship length: nearly four years Waited: had sex the day before we got together"It just felt right; he's such a sweet guy and treated me way better than I had been treated before.
Except if I had to choose one thing, I suppose I probably would've brought blankets (cement is cold)."Irene, 19, Puerto Rico Relationship length: one year and two months Waited: around 1.5 months"I just really liked him and felt super comfortable in the relationship we had at the moment.Natural progression of love, friendship, and comfort with intimacy. But I don't regret waiting as long as we did, though we might seem abnormal."Alexis, 21, State College Relationship length: three years Waited: one week"We had sex the second time we were together.I met him at a fraternity day-long [event], and then left a party with him the following week. He was really nice and we actually had a somewhat intelligent, real conversation before having sex, which is something that doesn't happen often when college guys are trying to just have sex with you.We were on a rooftop stargazing while on spring break and the air was really crisp, but he was so warm.I'd known him long before we started dating, so being able to share a silence without feeling uncomfortable stood out a lot.