Basically, they have a little more money, and that’s it. Nice guys are good breadwinners, and in many decades of science, it’s clear that once you have enough money for the basics, you won’t be substantially happier with more.
If it weren’t for the stories and letters, I’d have to wonder; I myself prefer good, true, honest, loving, kind, faithful men—most especially the nice guy I married. And yet we all know women who can’t seem to get excited about anyone but a jerk. There’s probably something to this; in studies, some women admit that when they have casual sex, they maintain high standards for a guy’s high resources.
Guess they'd rather date assh*les instead of giving a nice guy like me a shot.”Sound familiar?
These days, it seems that online dating apps are more crowded with desperate, bitter dudes than a pick-up artist's weekend seminar.
In high school, status comes from having the quickest wit or the most athletic prowess, or both. The funniest guy in high school is typically hilarious at others’ expense.
If you want to test your own personality traits, you can look here before continuing. Abundant science plus your own experience back this up: Girls dig status.