Either everyone is in a relationship or they are just looking for a good time.Does anyone know of any single parent gay oe lesbian groups? when i was a member of the unitarian church (no longer) they made a concerted effort to welcome and work with gay/lesbian individuals and families.Thanks, Kitty You should check with your local Gay/Lesbian Resource center. In Toronto, we actually have a Gay Yellow Pages with all sorts of resources available at your fungertips.. many people went to their original place of worship and there as well, just to be "themselves" for awhile.that was largely because at the time the minister was gay and her partner was an ex nun as well as social work expert in adoption. the minister also influenced and educated the local council of churches, etc.
their lesbian social worker worked with my daughter and part of that journey led her back to being heterosexual.
i will say when i first moved here from the east coast, being gay or lesbian was much more open on the west coast. for example the county where san jose is in and i suspect many others in CA has an adoption consultant both to the kids if they are gay and to the parents as well if they are.
there were also mentors and role models to assist in "either direction" to help "mixed" families out--be it parent or child who was gay/lesbian.
And if your strategy can include some humor, all the better.
"Now that I know my kid is gay, I'm concerned about same-sex sleepovers." Be a good parent.