Because a man can be really interested in you, sleep with you, act like a future boyfriend for a few weeks, and be doing the EXACT SAME THING with another woman simultaneously.
Or he could seem like a great guy, make a great effort for you, and then realize, when it’s time to commit, that he’s just not ready for a commitment.
Men may still frustrate you, but I can make things easier, especially if you use online dating as a means to meet men. You remember that this is how dating is supposed to feel. She had seen a really cute guy on and signed up for my Passion Course to figure out how to get his attention.
By mastering this medium and understanding male behavior, you can finally be in control of your own love life, and not a victim of disappearing men. If you’ve ever been really hot for a new online dating prospect, you’re not alone. You plan your first date for Saturday night, and you have butterflies beforehand. I wrote her profile, got her professional photos, and started our weekly coaching sessions.
Doesn’t mean you don’t want to see her, just means you’re looking to trade up. You’ll wish her the best of luck in her search and you’ll both move on to greener pastures. There are two possible scenarios: 1) she reciprocates in kind, and you become her boyfriend, and 2) she backs away, and you move on. To sum up, the reason her profile is still up is basically one of the below: 1) She’s playing it cool and trying not to act needy. Better to get an answer now than to wait another two months to find out where you stand.
You’re not really mourning the loss of a guy you never had.
I’ve had women tell me to chastise men to start following through more, to stop being so nice if they’re not ready for a relationship, to promise to call after having sex.
I hear you, and I agree that men could stand to do hundreds of things better to improve your relationships.
It’s the difference in feeling between losing a million dollars (devastating) vs.
the feeling of NOT winning the lottery at all when you had 4 numbers (mildly irritating). When the contract is signed, the ink is dry, and you know, without a doubt, that your dating prospect has become your BOYFRIEND.